As far as a relationship goes, I would like to be in a committed one. I'm not just out looking for a "good time", but I want to find someone who shares my interests and is willing to put the same effort forth as I am. I think it takes time to learn about each other and don't want to mistake infatuation for real love and committment. It's not always easy to recognize that.I'm looking for someone who really wants to get to know me. Sure, you can be immediately attracted to someone, but it takes time to get to know them. I like to be around a woman with varied interests, who is independent, yet wants to share her life with someone. They should be open to new activities and ideas. I'm looking for a woman that understands family values, has a good sense of humor, and loves adventure! I want to be with someone who can be spontaneous, loves to travel, but yet enjoys staying home to snuggle up to watch a good movie.