I rather you form your own opinions about me once we've become friends. I make an effort to treat people like I want to be treated, and give them the benefit of doubt not to take my kindness for weakness. I've been used for way too long in my life, and want to have some good times and enjoy myself. I am a good listner, can be a great online pen-pal, maybe more once I'm a FREE female again which will be really soon. So, let's not jumb too fast, hopefully we'll have time to bond first, but I promise I'm worth the wait... :-)