The day that your eyes first met is a day that you will never forget. The first time you held hands, your first date, and the first time that you kissed are all memories that will forever be embedded in your brain. Unfortunately, the person that you think about in all of these situations has decided that it is time to move on. Maybe you lied, maybe you cheated, or maybe you have no idea why in God’s name your true love has decided to call it quits. All that matters is now you are single, you are alone, and all you want is just to have your true love back in our arms for good.

So now, your good old friend desperation decides to pay you a visit. You let desperation talk you into things that you would never think to do in every day life. He makes you jealous. He makes you think things that are crazy. But for some strange reason when we as humans are trying to get our true love back, we always let desperation pay us a visit.

Well let me tell you, if you really want to win your true love back, you are going to have to tell desperation to take a hike. Even though some of his ideas may seem brilliant when you are in this state of mind, you must resist! Calling and texting and begging are going to do far more harm than good in this situation. It is going to let your ex know that you are weak. Depending on your ex, this can be bad in many ways. Your ex can use this to their advantage or this can make your ex wonder why he was ever with someone who is so weak and desperate.

What you have to do in this situation is be strong. I am not saying that you need to be rude and shut them completely out of your life, but you must be strong. If your ex calls and tells you that they are feeling lost or lonely, tell them that you are happy that they called but that you have some things going on yourself and that you would love to talk to them about this issue in a couple of days or maybe even in a week. Not only will this make them wonder what you have going on, but this is also going to force them to think about you nonstop until you finally talk with them again.

I know that when you get dumped the first thing that you are going to do is cry and beg and plead, but after that initial session is over, recoup yourself, and start making smart decisions that are going to help you, and tell your good old friend desperation to kiss your ass. You are strong and you know what you want, so don’t let desperation get the best of you, and go out there and win back your true love!