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Where Should We Meet Women?

Wednesday, February 18th, 2009

My friend told me about her husband’s experience in finding women to get marry. She told me that her husband needed to work hard for finding good woman. Most of people think hard to find their bride or bride groom. Basically, meeting woman that you would actually want to bring home to meet mom and dad isn’t as hard as it sounds. There is, of course, the singles scene out in the bars and clubs all over town but I don’t recommend that one. It’s not that just bad girls go to bars; it’s that it is hard to tell the good ones from the bad one.

You meet women at work, too, but, there again, I don’t recommend them too. The problem with that is that, if things don’t work out, you will still have to work together and the situation could be awkward to say the least.

Your friends know woman that you haven’t met – sisters, cousins, etc. Ask them to introduce you to them. But, big brother, do avoid blind meeting. Those things hardly ever work out and you can spend a lot of money for a very uncomfortable evening. And you can hurt their feeling. So, be a good man, responsible and set a high value on women.

The best places to meet women that you might actually want to marry are at clubs and organizations that you belong to. You will already have something in common with them and will have had the opportunity to see them interact with other people and that tells you a lot about a person. If you aren’t already involved with any clubs or organizations the, for heaven sakes, join some. Find ones that are all about something you are interested in. There are clubs and organizations that cover just about anything you can think of from astronomy to zoology and single women are involved in all of them. Besides having good activities, they also have any good though in positive fields. It’s very important.

Get involved in civic organizations. Women love men who are civic minded. They admire men who are willing to “give back”. What about political campaigns? You will meet a lot of young women who are passionate about politics. It doesn’t matter. You can get feedback from it. Sharing each other about a lot of topic can make your thought better.

In fact, you can’t go to everywhere women sit. Beside it will be expensive for cost, also it’s not effective. Try to search information about some good women before you meet them. You can use any social networking site such as or Ask® to ask them about their personality, their thought, and their vision for marry. It was created to give people from different cultures around the world the opportunity to connect and share thoughts and ideas, and even to make friends, romance and marriage. Love isn’t all about appetite. Love is also about a kindness and belief. When you get marry, you can make a lot of dating with your wife, it’s better than another date before marry.

Dating Tips for Guys: Effective Ways to Succeed With Hot Girls

Monday, February 16th, 2009

Come to think of it guys, have you ever measured your success ratio on the kind of girls you’re going into? For example, your success rate when it comes to hot girls. If you compare them to your success rate with the girls slightly below their level, you might find out for yourself that your success rate in hot girls are lower than that of the average ones.

What we think then is that these hot girls are more selective than the average ones. If you think about it, it does makes sense. But this sounds more like an excuse for us. Because these girls aren’t as choosy as what we’ve thought them to be. It is actually our own behavior that changes when it comes to these hot girls because of what we think they are. This may sound cliche but it is actually true. We just sometimes feel intimidated because of their appearance and maybe status in the society especially when they’re really popular.

So how do we deal with it? Here’s one specific way:

Every time you put a hot girl’s number on your phone, how do you store their names? We usually put something like, “Sexy Monique,” or “Scarlet Hot!” This kind of classification can affect our behavior in a subtle but negative way. For example, when you make a call to “Sexy Monique” you will feel more adrenaline than when you simply call “Monique.”

So here’s a dating advice from the pickup artist, Julian Foxx, its what he calls, “Reverse Classification.”

Whenever you get a hot girl’s phone number, look at her closely, and imagine what her juvenile class mates used to call her. If she’s got nice fake breast, may she was flat as board and they probably called her “wall chest” or something. If she’s tall and blonde, perhaps they called her “Monique Big Bird.”

Now that you get the idea, next step is to store her name in your phone in that way (Scarlet Wall Chest, Monique Big Bird, etc.).

It will not only reduce any anxiety you feel whenever you call her, but it will also lessen your anxiety towards her when you’re together. This can also help you gain more self-confidence and feel less intimidated around her.

Remember, these attractive girls are not really selective, its us who think that way and that’s what keeping our success rates with them low. There could be other ways to overcome this aside from the “Reverse Classification” method. More dating tips soon.